Reflecting On Life…

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In a span of one week, there were 3 plane crashes; Malaysian Airline MH17 (claimed 298 lives), TransAsia ATR-72 (claimed 48 lives), Air Algerie AH5017 (claimed 116 lives) and some people I know lost their loved ones not due to the plane crashes but to sickness or road accident.  Is life like a box of chocolate?  Life is uncertain, unpredictable as God word says in James 4:14 “Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.” (NIV)

So how should we live our remaining lives here on earth?

For me, I will walk closer to God and share the good news as I go along.  Live life to the fullest, spending time with loved ones whenever possible and celebrate life every single moment.  To be grateful for all the blessings and try not to be envious or compare life with others.  We are called in Colossians 3:2 to “Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.” (NIV) because in Matthew 6:21, says “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” (NIV)

When we live for God and align our will to His will, everything will fall into place and He will provide for our every need.  What we need to do to carry out our purpose is to commit our plans to Him and walk in His light and be obey His commands.

Life is short, love and cherish the people around you.  Forgive those who need your forgiveness.  Date your spouse, play with your kids, visit your parents, yum char with your friends for you do not when will be the last time you’ll see them.

What’s In The Bible? Do You Know?

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If you are looking for materials where you and your kids can learn more about the Bible, do consider “What’s In The Bible”.  I’ll let the creator of WITB who is also the creator of Veggie Tales, Phil Vischer give you a brief introduction on this project (watch the video below)

It is really fun to watch not only kids but adults will surely learn from this series.

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A Day In A Week Dedicated To…

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Vincent (my husband) and I have set aside Wednesday as a day of fasting to draw ourselves closer to God and to slow down.  Why Wednesday you may ask, because Wednesday is mid week and we find that it’s a good day to slow down.

You see, when you are an entrepreneur who works from home, you not only have to juggle work but also the family.  So it is no surprise that it is easier for us to get stressed up and agitated when we are distracted by what is going on around the house.  Sure, we have set a time table of when we will do what kids will still come and interrupt our work to ask for stuff.  A lot of discipline and management skills come to play when you are a work from home Mom who homeschool her kids.

How we fast.  We have a bowl of oats in the morning and just water for the rest of the day until we break fast at 6pm.  We usually skip our exercise routine when we fast.    When we feel hungry, we draw ourselves closer to God by asking Him to give us strength to persevere.  We will remember that we are mere mortal and thus depend on Him to meet our needs.

Porn And Your Husband

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Some of you may have discovered that your husband has been watching porn and you wonder if he no longer finds you attractive or whether it is your fault.

Let me give you 3 scenarios of how a married man (and possibly your husband) can get entangled into porn:

Scenario #1 – The Hardworking Husband

He may be a business guy writing proposals or a computer programmer that works a lot on the computer.  By the time he finishes his proposal, it’s late and his entire body is tired. When he gets tired, he wants to de-stress. You, the wife could be already sleeping with the kids in the master bedroom. Nobody’s looking and nobody’s judging, so he fiddles with his penis and feels more relaxed from the stress burdened from his work. He sees that his computer monitor is still on. The Internet is still connected. He searches for porn, visits the site, sees a sexy and naked woman. He finishes the de-stress process with a fantasy imagination of having sex with the porn star in place of the male porn actor. After he is done with the sin, he cleans up the mess, and creeps into the master bedroom, asking forgiveness from God. He feels guilty to you, but he thinks that it will all go away by waking up the next morning without you knowing it.

Scenario #2 – The Gamer Husband

His favorite game could be an online Massively Multi-Player Online Role-Playing Game (MMORPG) or a first person army shooter, etc. He tells you to sleep first, as that was his leisure day, a day off from the kids, and to chill online. He plays the game, gets tired, and the rest of the story goes similar with Scenario #1.

Scenario #3 – The Downloader Husband

He likes to download movies and games. He visits a torrent site. There is a banner with a lady teasing him to click it. He clicks it, and ends up in the site. The voices of the sex tempting demons take over, and he masturbates and gets addicted with bondage.

Occassionally, when he does it too often and too guilty, he try and justify a way out. He does it by cropping a porn star body, with your head image and combine it, and does his masturbation on it. Seems harmless, but over time, he has less sex and intimacy with you, and that causes and opens up a whole new bunch of relationship challenges. Sometimes, you find that he may have ignored you because he needs less and less sexual intimacy from you, and you wonder what’s wrong.

How then can you restore your marriage and set boundaries for tough love?  If you know your husband is struggling with porn addiction, please download this e-book “Porn And Your Husband” (click on the text) and I’m sure you will be blessed.

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Been A Year Since I Started MomSpirer

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It’s been a year since I started Momspirer.  Sorry I have not been updating my blog for we have been tied up with learning new stuff and homeschooling our girls.

I hope to find more time to write and share more so I can inspire you to be the woman God has called you to be.

Stay tuned for more and I gotta type off soon as it’s 3.30am now and I’ve scheduled this post to be published later today so you would be able to read it (more for my FB fans).

Thank you so much for your support, I wouldn’t be here with you.  Love you Moms.

God bless.

This 9-Year-Old Built A Nonprofit, No-Kill Animal Shelter Out Of His Garage To Help Stray Animals

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This is a story of a 9-year old boy who built a no-kill animal shelter out of his garage. So inspiring and a child is never too young to help the the unfortunate. (click the link below to read the article)

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/05/15/happy-animals-club_n_5324863.html

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Confession of a Stay At Home Mom

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Confession of a Stay At Home Mom who works from home…

Been spending most of my time working for the past 10 days then 2 nights back, during bedtime my eldest girl, Vicky said “Mommy, you didn’t spend much time with me and my sisters”.

Even though I’m home with them, I’m not exactly “present”, I need to work on my time management.

I know most of us get carried away once we start doing something, do take breaks in between and chill with your kids so that in the mist of “work” you will still be “present” and avoid letting them feel neglected.

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2 Coaching Sessions In A Day

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Conducted 2 coaching sessions today; one student learned how to generate targeted leads and boost sales, the other student learn how to develop mobile apps. If you are interested in exploring your options, feel free to PM to have a chat.

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