Porn And Your Husband

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Some of you may have discovered that your husband has been watching porn and you wonder if he no longer finds you attractive or whether it is your fault.

Let me give you 3 scenarios of how a married man (and possibly your husband) can get entangled into porn:

Scenario #1 – The Hardworking Husband

He may be a business guy writing proposals or a computer programmer that works a lot on the computer.  By the time he finishes his proposal, it’s late and his entire body is tired. When he gets tired, he wants to de-stress. You, the wife could be already sleeping with the kids in the master bedroom. Nobody’s looking and nobody’s judging, so he fiddles with his penis and feels more relaxed from the stress burdened from his work. He sees that his computer monitor is still on. The Internet is still connected. He searches for porn, visits the site, sees a sexy and naked woman. He finishes the de-stress process with a fantasy imagination of having sex with the porn star in place of the male porn actor. After he is done with the sin, he cleans up the mess, and creeps into the master bedroom, asking forgiveness from God. He feels guilty to you, but he thinks that it will all go away by waking up the next morning without you knowing it.

Scenario #2 – The Gamer Husband

His favorite game could be an online Massively Multi-Player Online Role-Playing Game (MMORPG) or a first person army shooter, etc. He tells you to sleep first, as that was his leisure day, a day off from the kids, and to chill online. He plays the game, gets tired, and the rest of the story goes similar with Scenario #1.

Scenario #3 – The Downloader Husband

He likes to download movies and games. He visits a torrent site. There is a banner with a lady teasing him to click it. He clicks it, and ends up in the site. The voices of the sex tempting demons take over, and he masturbates and gets addicted with bondage.

Occassionally, when he does it too often and too guilty, he try and justify a way out. He does it by cropping a porn star body, with your head image and combine it, and does his masturbation on it. Seems harmless, but over time, he has less sex and intimacy with you, and that causes and opens up a whole new bunch of relationship challenges. Sometimes, you find that he may have ignored you because he needs less and less sexual intimacy from you, and you wonder what’s wrong.

How then can you restore your marriage and set boundaries for tough love?  If you know your husband is struggling with porn addiction, please download this e-book “Porn And Your Husband” (click on the text) and I’m sure you will be blessed.

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Been A Year Since I Started MomSpirer

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It’s been a year since I started Momspirer.  Sorry I have not been updating my blog for we have been tied up with learning new stuff and homeschooling our girls.

I hope to find more time to write and share more so I can inspire you to be the woman God has called you to be.

Stay tuned for more and I gotta type off soon as it’s 3.30am now and I’ve scheduled this post to be published later today so you would be able to read it (more for my FB fans).

Thank you so much for your support, I wouldn’t be here with you.  Love you Moms.

God bless.

This 9-Year-Old Built A Nonprofit, No-Kill Animal Shelter Out Of His Garage To Help Stray Animals

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This is a story of a 9-year old boy who built a no-kill animal shelter out of his garage. So inspiring and a child is never too young to help the the unfortunate. (click the link below to read the article)

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/05/15/happy-animals-club_n_5324863.html

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Confession of a Stay At Home Mom

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Confession of a Stay At Home Mom who works from home…

Been spending most of my time working for the past 10 days then 2 nights back, during bedtime my eldest girl, Vicky said “Mommy, you didn’t spend much time with me and my sisters”.

Even though I’m home with them, I’m not exactly “present”, I need to work on my time management.

I know most of us get carried away once we start doing something, do take breaks in between and chill with your kids so that in the mist of “work” you will still be “present” and avoid letting them feel neglected.

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2 Coaching Sessions In A Day

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Conducted 2 coaching sessions today; one student learned how to generate targeted leads and boost sales, the other student learn how to develop mobile apps. If you are interested in exploring your options, feel free to PM to have a chat.

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Surprise Sale

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Had a surprise today when I got a sale from a digital product I created in 2008. This product is out on the internet and once a while gives me a surprise “bonus” income. Work once, reap over and over again, the wonder of a system that helps you generate passive income.

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Quartely Update

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Hi Mommies, so first quarter of 2014 is gone and we start 2nd quarter already. How are you Mommies doing so far? Started your “resolution” yet or still procrastinating?

Hubby and I started our exercise routine early this year and is still at it…takes discipline and determination to stay on course and we will work at it as long as we can….

Do share with me what you have achieved or plan to achieve in 2014…

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Coaching Testimony – Jenny Chan

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Coaching Testimony:

“I would like to Thank You to Joanne, who is an inspiring and motivating coach, and friend. She is devoted to taking the time to understand my goals and objectives, then she taught me, guided me and shared a lots of information, knowledge and skills to support me. I am grateful for her wisdom, her honesty, her generous heart, her vision, and most of all her patience. I have learnt so much from her.”

Jenny Chan
http://www.princess-joy.com/
https://www.facebook.com/princess.joy

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